Comments on: How can I get out of my house. I’m too young to have my own house.please help. http://kitchen-appliances-pro.com/2008/11/26/how-can-i-get-out-of-my-house-im-too-young-to-have-my-own-houseplease-help/ Kitchen-Appliances-Pro.com Mon, 21 May 2012 21:36:16 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: Smith http://kitchen-appliances-pro.com/2008/11/26/how-can-i-get-out-of-my-house-im-too-young-to-have-my-own-houseplease-help/#comment-1099 Smith Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=20081126111156AALkRaL#comment-1099 Maybe speak to your Grandma first and see if she would be willing to have you. If so speak to your mum and say that with all the mess and upheaval you can’t concentrate to study (if you are still at school) or that you feel you cannot bring anyone round to your house so that is is affecting your friendships. Maybe the realization that things are so bad you want to leave will shock your dad into reassessing his ways. I think it sounds like he might have a few issues so if possible get your mum to encourage him to speak to someone about his behaviour and remember that for him to do this he is most likely in some sort of inner distress and needs your love and support in order to move on in life from all this hoarding. Perhaps google the condition: compulsive hoarding. Maybe speak to your Grandma first and see if she would be willing to have you. If so speak to your mum and say that with all the mess and upheaval you can’t concentrate to study (if you are still at school) or that you feel you cannot bring anyone round to your house so that is is affecting your friendships.
Maybe the realization that things are so bad you want to leave will shock your dad into reassessing his ways. I think it sounds like he might have a few issues so if possible get your mum to encourage him to speak to someone about his behaviour and remember that for him to do this he is most likely in some sort of inner distress and needs your love and support in order to move on in life from all this hoarding.

Perhaps google the condition: compulsive hoarding.

]]> By: smile!! http://kitchen-appliances-pro.com/2008/11/26/how-can-i-get-out-of-my-house-im-too-young-to-have-my-own-houseplease-help/#comment-1100 smile!! Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000 http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=20081126111156AALkRaL#comment-1100 Your dad is a hoarder, and appearing to suffer from attention deficit disorder. The two have created caos, causing him to have accumulated many things and not being able to finish any projects. Your mother is condoning the behavior by allowing this continue. As for you I am glad that you see that this has nothing to do with you personally.You need to talk with your grandma, and go where you will be happy and make the best grades. You will be much more relaxed out of this environment. Your grandma will have to talk with your parents, and do what is best for you. Only when your dad is ready to get help will he change. Having so much going on can be financially draining, as these properties are costing him more in the long run and not letting him have the essentials such as hot water. Take care of yourself and if it comes down to it you may need to talk to a counselor. Homes without hot water that have children in them can be charged with neglect. I wish the best for you and remember that your dad is not doing this intentionally. It is a true mental condition. Your dad is a hoarder, and appearing to suffer from attention deficit disorder. The two have created caos, causing him to have accumulated many things and not being able to finish any projects. Your mother is condoning the behavior by allowing this continue.
As for you I am glad that you see that this has nothing to do with you personally.You need to talk with your grandma, and go where you will be happy and make the best grades. You will be much more relaxed out of this environment. Your grandma will have to talk with your parents, and do what is best for you.
Only when your dad is ready to get help will he change. Having so much going on can be financially draining, as these properties are costing him more in the long run and not letting him have the essentials such as hot water.
Take care of yourself and if it comes down to it you may need to talk to a counselor. Homes without hot water that have children in them can be charged with neglect. I wish the best for you and remember that your dad is not doing this intentionally. It is a true mental condition.

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