My boyfriend lives with me, but he goes to his mother’s house in the morning before he goes to work, then he goes to her house before he comes home in the evening. He talks to his mother about everything, and in return he does not let me in on everything because he has already told her. She gets him to drive her around to look for kitchen appliances, but he did not even go with me to find ours. He occasionaly cleans her kitchen but is not here cleaning ours. He calls her all the time and asks if she is ok or does she need anything. I understand checking up on your mother, but who has to go over there everday, that is weird to me. I guess I wonder what will happen if we have kids, will he be here or there. I do not want to take our relationship to any next steps while this is still a problem. It angers me so much. The thing is, I don’t know if it is her or him, or both.
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This will not get better if/when you marry. Maybe you should talk to him and let him know that you are bothered by it. Will the kids and him have to go by her house before school.
ok you and i have the same situation and it sucks but the bad thing about mine is that we are next door neighbors me and my boyfriend live together but is mom and dad and brother are in the house next to us. and it is the worst thing in a relationship it will tear you apart. the only thing that i would do is tell him about how you feel but its not going to change and i know that for a fact you cant take away a mans mom. you just cant also my bf mom is always in our business she comes over while we are gone at work or something and just goes thru our stuff throws away our mail and to tell you the truth she is a B**** and i cant stand it. so the only advice i can tell you is that you should just tell him how you are feeling left out but i will tell you this if you find a man that is good to his mom he will be a damn good husband to you because he knows how to treat his mom but i would deff tell him that you are feeling left out thats what i did and it worked for now. good luck and i hope you get what you deserve.
run like the devil is chasing you with the pitch fork, our daughter now with 5 children wishes she would have and has had to file for divorce.